Is it a bicycle light? Is it a rubber carrot? No. They are erotic world wonders. Sex toys have been around since time immemorial and come from all corners of the world. Three blindfolded duos get products in their hands, without knowing that they are sensual toys. So how to use Ben Wa balls, lets find it out.
What is it?
At the beginning it is difficult, although the erotic character of the attributes begins to dawn on some. At product number three, the vibrator, they can no longer ignore: this root belongs between the sheets. Where one person prefers not to touch, the other person cannot get enough of it. When the blindfolds go off, the astonishment is great.
Where does it come from?
A lot of thought goes into the country of origin of the wonders of the world. The cock ring is business like, and therefore fits Germany. The vaginal balls are transparent with lotus flowers in them; quite spiritual. The bizarre dildo must come from Japan and the high-tech vibrator from USA and Great Britain. The duos are not very far off.
You have probably seen or heard about it or read about it. The Ben Wa balls are again extremely popular, which may also be due to the bestselling book ‘Fifty Shades of Gray’.
These Ben Wa balls also called Geisha balls, pleasure balls, lust balls or vaginal balls offer you erotic pleasure, are good for your health and ensure finer sex. But what if you bought them yourself or maybe even got a gift? What can you do with it? How exactly do they work? And how do you use them? And if you are still considering buying them: how to choose the right one from the wide range?
Erotic pleasure and health
Ben Wa balls are centuries old. They serve not only for sexual pleasure, but the exercises you can do with it support physical health and a fine sex life. This excellent combination ensures that the balls were loved throughout the centuries. How do these balls work? You are supposed to wear the balls in your vagina during your daily activities. By moving yourself you constantly get small erotic stimuli. They are hollow metal balls in which a second ball is stored away. The outer balls are more or less clamped in your body, but the inner balls move with every movement you make yourself.
If you move yourself, the rolling of the inner balls is transmitted to the outer balls as a slight vibration. This will gently stimulate your G-spot with every movement. The stimulation is not so intense that you get an orgasm from it, but it can certainly be a sensual and exciting experience.
Not only excitement, but also better sex
The balls do not immediately lead to excitement in all women. Some women feel almost nothing of the balls. Nevertheless, wearing the balls is useful for all women.
With the balls you train your pelvic floor muscles. These muscles actually form the bottom of your pelvis and support your organs in the abdomen, such as your bladder, uterus, vagina and intestine. Your pelvic floor also plays an important role if you have sex. Not for nothing are they called: sex muscles. Untrained pelvic floor muscles resemble elastics with insufficient tension. It depends and reduces operation.
The Ben Wa helps you to train your pelvic floor muscles. Depending on the weight of the balls, it takes your effort to keep the ball ‘inside’. For this you have to keep your floorboard muscles tightened. The heavier the balls the more muscle tension you need. And because of this you automatically train your pelvic floor muscles, making them stronger. Because of the balls you are also more aware of your bottoms muscles and you get more and more control over them. You can imagine that with strong pelvic floor muscles you have more control and feeling and that this provides for finer sex and more powerful and intense orgasms which also give a nice feeling for your partner.
How do you use Ben Wa balls?
Remove the balls from the packaging and clean them with warm water or a special cleanser for sex toys. Apply a little lubricant to the balls and possibly to the entrance of your vagina. This facilitates insertion. Apply the first ball by applying a slight pressure. You will notice that after some resistance it automatically slides inwards.
If there is a connection between the balls then you also push them inside. After this you bring the 2nd ball in the same way as the first one. Then you can push the balls further with a finger until you feel that they are comfortable and do not automatically fall out. If there is a string or loop on the balls then it stays outside your vagina.
To remove it, pull the string or tab with light pressure. If necessary, you can first apply an extra lubricant to the vagina. You can just wear the balls during daily activities such as housekeeping, shopping, or taking the children out of school. No one will notice that you are wearing the Ben Wa balls.
Which balls should I choose?
There are many different types of Ben Wa. You see them in all kinds of materials, such as metal, plastic, rubber and even wood. There are also all kinds of versions such as loose balls in a set of 2, 3 or 4 or balls that are connected with a string.
However, the principle remains the same regardless of the name or type of implementation. The heaviness and size of the balls determine the ‘difficulty level’. Small heavy balls are harder to hold than larger light balls. Larger balls you feel better sitting and are usually experienced as more exciting. You can find metal, plastic, rubber and more varieties of ben wa balls.
Light: Are you a beginner, over-50s or have you recently given birth? Then choose from the larger (but lighter) geisha balls here. Balls on a string are easier to insert and remove.
Medium: If you are more advanced choose the smaller, heavier balls.
Heavy: Are you an experienced user and do you especially want to train your pelvic floor muscles? Then choose the smallest, heavy balls. These will stimulate you less erotically, but are very effective in training your pelvic floor muscles.
Ben Wa in the BDSM
Although Ben Wa balls are not a special BDSM toy, you can give it a BDSM touch. A Dominant can give a subservient assignment to carry the balls, preferably at a time when this is not expected for example during a dinner or a party.
Another option is mandatory training of the floor-block muscles, as described in the explanation. The weight of the Ben Wa balls can be increased during the training. Are you very curious about the wildly popular balls from the most famous erotic book of the moment? We are of course talking about the Ben Wa Balls.
Mr. Gray will see you now! With this Ben Wa Balls Silver train and enjoy at the same time. Bring the balls in or let your partner bring them to you. Try to keep them inside and train your pelvic floor and your vaginal muscle. But also enjoy the special feeling and secret that you and your partner have when you wear them.
The gravity and the no longer tightening of your muscles ensure that the balls easily free themselves from their exciting position. Are the balls in an unexpected movement directly in your slip? Then you suffer from very weak muscles and it is advisable to first use them indoors. Once you can keep them inside you can do it with peace of mind because no one hears that you have them.